WTF?!...part one of many, I am sure

Yeah, I was writing at one point as a juror but...that will be later..who cares? Those episodes will surely be entangled in my current writings as I see fit..but move one. Ok....many things have happened in the year or more since I last written and those as well will also filter in to what I am writing. But today?....today.

Today was just, wow....when your own mother disrespects your wishes regarding YOUR OWN kids...something is so definitely wrong. My youngest boy is 17, almost 18 but the last time I looked, he is still a minor. Meaning: I make the decisions. I will take all arguments into consideration, all..........dismiss the ones that I believe are ridiculous and seriously think about the ones that are credible.

My son's hair is way down to his butt.....yes, he does look like Jesus or at the very least, one of the Apostles.....or in modern day history, Jim Morrison........and????? I did have a huge problem with his decision to GROW his hair to this ridiculous length. But today, he decided that he was going to cut it of.f...all off..buzz the hell out of it.....like he was signing up to fight in a so wrong war in such a corrupt country.....or FOR such a corrupt county (or current administration). I do still believe in the first amendment of Freedom of Speech.....actually, originally, that was our third amendment but the first two were not ratified so that one became our first.....and I kept telling my mom, please do not do it....please.

So, she cuts it off....fine and I am going to donate that huge, thick pony tail to our Shriner's hospital so someone who can benefit from it.......and she cuts it......(she once was a hair dresser...excellent hairdresser)......and that boy, young man, looked so handsome. He has these very high cheekbones....so do I and so does his father........I mean, he has the most beautiful bone structure plus these piercing blue...saphire blue eyes.....he's gorgeous.....and this hair cut made him look even more beautiful and I think that is what bothered him (pretty boy) because..........he decided to shave his hair.......like G.I. hair.......and that is when it went south and I had to leave.

He comes home, shaved hair and she knicks the back and he has a huge bald spot.....excellent hairdresser but horrible barber. What really bothers me is that she could not nor would not tell him NO! NO, I won't do this. No, I won't shave your hair, you may regret this. No, I will not disrespect your mother's wishes.......Perhaps, she may be right in saying that you should leave the hair cut and that if your do not like it tomorrow, or even the next day, go to a BARBER and have him shave it. Just sleep on it. Give yourself some time to think and not be so impulsive........you are going from one extreme to another. Give yourself some time to think before making this decision.

This is the same woman, mother that gave her son a mohawk back in the late 80's and bitched about it.......the same woman who bleaches my older boy's hair blonde.....ok......his hair is brown and both of his parents have very dark brown hair......and buys him products to spike it like the freaking Statue of Liberty......AND complains about it.

AND................if someone ever calls me an enabler ever again in this life time, I will seriously have to hurt him or her........seriously. I will have to have a little chat with he, my mother that is, tomorrow........WTF? Why would someone do this???? I gave my boy a lesson on disrespecting others when he cussed about her NOT shaving it off in the first place........I believe that was totally misdirected. I need to have a chat with mi mamma about disrespecting MY feelings...........yeah, I can sound like a spoiled baby....but last time I looked, damn it......I, yes I gave birth to the two monsters, damn it!

Thank you for listening to this and Ciao!