Ah.........First Loves

Last year about this time, older boy met some strega (witch) on line. I have heard so many versions of how they met, that it truely no longer matters. What matters is? I wish he would not have ever met her at all. I have spoke briefly about her in a few posts...she just happened to come up, but nothing I mentioned was in great detail.

Too make a long story short.......they broke up a few months ago and I was elated!!!!

She was a complete nut job.....and I mean certifiable. And in someways..........many ways......I actually feel sorry for her. I felt and still feel that the best thing her parents could ever do for this girl is to get her some much needed help. I am puting her level of instability into a category all of it's own. She is seriously a threat to herself and those around her and I am not exagerrating.

She is cunning, calculating, actually has been admitted for the mandatory 72 hour observasion our state sometimes mandates and she's a "cutter." http://www.vinland.org/scamp/institute/dsh.html

None of the above mentioned "red flags" warranted any "flight" response from my son. I mean, they were not an issue. This was his first, true love.

Wow! As the butt-in-at-every-chance mother that I am, I begged, I pleaded, I provided literature on the truely mentally ill.....but nothing. No avail. My whole family did the same. His father, however, said I was "coddling."

My boy's attitude changed for the worse.....fighting constantly with his brother, me, whomever........I seriously did not like this young man.......but what could I have done? I let the whole thing play out and it finally ended when HE finally could not take anymore of the manipulation and just the plain nuttieness. HE had to come to this realization and he did. I just wish he didn't get hurt in the process but that does happen in "love."

Well? She's back! I mean back like a sequel to a very scarry movie.

She found my son on line the other night, called him about 25 times in a row, and sent numerous text messages which were so disgusting I threw up a little in my mouth just reading them. Then? She calls me to inform me that MY son was doing this to her. And how he cheated on her and yadda, yadda, yadda. She is truely pathological and I don't know why she would seek me out as her compadre in this matter. She is very much aware that I can't stand her and have never made any bones about it!

So, now I had to find out who was naughty and who was nice. You know....he said/she said....teen-age drama bullshit! I went on line, pulled off the emails.......(she's very good at cut and paste........) checked the phone logs from the cell phone company......25 calls in a row all made from HER,..............and had to send all text messages, and their vile contents to my computer for evidence.

Why do I need evidence? The girl just didn't stop there. She got daddy involved and convinced him that my son is anti-semetic and is going to "gas" her and her family..........(cut and paste emails that do not match the originals in my son's "sent box."). All of this because of being jilted and CRAZY. And, daddy has fallen for her crap.

The bastard called me up in a nut rage bullying, threatening and screaming at me. He's some whoopty doo photo journalist in Southern California that had to tell me several times about all the people he knows............I am supposed to care? I am supposed to afraid? What, dude?

He talks....screams at me about hate crimes..........and the seriousness of them........really? I surely was not aware of the seriousness of all this. But what he failed to scream about? His daughter making fun of my son because he is half Mexican......she stooped so low in these emails that she informed my son that her father needs a gardener and would my son be into accepting this position.

Then, she went on even further about the "criminal" side of Boy#1's ethnicity.....that would his Italian side (me). I guess my son should audition for the Sopranos.....(last season, a little too late). She conveniently ommitted these little transgressions from her conversation with daddy.

And daddy didn't know what hit him when I let into his photo journalist ass about his daughter's own version of racism! Get your ducks in a row............And, don't bully me nor talk down to me........I'll burry your ass! He seriously has a problem with women and tends to see them as weak and easily intimidated. Not this one!!!!! No, no, no. Don't confuse me with someone else! Douche Bag!

I ended the conversation by simply stating.....the end....no more...done. No contact whatsoever!

My son has been given a set of instructions on what to do with "spam" (her emails) phone calls, etc........and he is to follow all of them. No deviation whatsoever. Damn, I was pissed.

I think my whole block heard me yelling but? who cares...go in the house! Sometimes, we have to come out fighting, just a little.

Now, if she comes back for a third sequel? The District Attorney's office will be involved. Restraining order time.

Soemtimes? I wonder if this is all worth it.

I will post more on Father of the Year's contribution to this exciting episode of life. Idiot!